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Choice- Love or Family??
Date: 15 Apr 2009/ Views: 922 / Comments: 9
I have my boyfriend but my family is against him. I love him and he loves me too. I just don't know the right thing to do. I don't want to break
up with him but that makes my family happy. They even locked me up in here have my uncle guarding me. It is really pissing me off! But every time I
talked about it to my mom she doesn't even care. And I know he understands that but I’m afraid his patience will come to an end. I just want to
know what is the right thing to do? Break up with him or fight for him even my whole clan will get angry with me and they will stop me from studying
and my allowance? :( - Cheitel/ Calamba, Phillipines.
# One of the toughest decision to be made; choice between the love of your life
and family has never been easier. If we start a poll or a debate on this topic, I’m sure we’ll never reach to an answer. Different people,
different views! So, let me just try to make it easier for you. Ask yourself these few questions and decide yourself: 1) Do you love him so much
that you can’t live without him? 2) Do you think your life will be happier and good with him? 3) Do you think you can convince your family
sooner or later? 4) Do you think he too loves you a lot and can keep you happy? If you find the answers to these questions, I’m sure
you’ll know what to do.
-- Dr. Teen.
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1. | 27 Apr 2009 - 15:06

i'll tell you a one story here it goes "there was a boy and a girl they were in deep love and one day that boy asked girl to marry that girl and then girl asked "how much you love me... " he said "i can do anything for you" and she said "cut your moms head and bring it to me" And think what he did it...but girl refused to marry....guess why she became afraid...if a boy can cut her moms head then what he'll do to her if....r u getting my point..so love of life is more important or family that give us a new life every day.....you r in the condition of that boy in the story...ahead yours will....i dnt have to say anything now.....